The thumping heart, the screwed up head, the constant thoughts of them, the unsaid words, I could go on and on; the point is we all know the feeling of heartbreak. Some may describe it as one of the worst feelings in the world, much like the 'when you put your phone on charge but later find out that you forgot to turn the switch on' kinda feeling.
But there comes a point where we have to stop mourning the relationship, pick ourselves back up and start moving on with life again. (Easier said than done, I know.)
I've recently found an article that included some very useful information and advice, which helped me out a lot and made me realize what is reality and what is not. Here is my interpretation of it, I hope it helps you too!
The truth is...
You don't miss HIM, you miss what you WANTED HIM TO BE. After a break up we tend to forget all the negative things about our ex, especially if you were the one who was broken up with and is hurting. And we only focus on the memories when we were happy, to a point where we sometimes even forget why the two of you broke up in the first place. I am certainly guilty of this next one; we make up scenarios in our heads and things about them which aren't true, making us believe that we are still in love with them. When in fact that's not the person they are at all, its the person you wish they were.
But you should know that this person is a fantasy and not your real-life ex.
Yes he may have made you feel like no other person did and he may have said those things which made your heart melt. But all while this was happening your mind only focused on the good things and you didn't notice all of the other stuff that was happening. Meaning that you were basically blinded by love, as they say. You will only get over him when you recognize that who you are missing is nothing but a ghost.
As soon as I learnt this it put everything into perspective and I basically knew in that moment that I was over him... the real him.
#knowyourtruth
Best wishes,
geeeboo xox
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